Outsider.

(Sneak peak of Bangkok;every dog that i ran into wears attire on them)

Was hopping through blogs and came to one which illustrated about a relationship where the guy is engaged with another girl but he is getting himself involve with another girl,the outsider.(when i was going through the story so many things were running in my head)So i was thinking,not every outsider is bitchy or have an intention to take away the guy from where he original belonged to. In most situations we dont see the outsider but express our empathy for the other party in the relationship and as for the guy he gets away with the conventional idea of mans are not to be blamed.

This relates back to my very long ago post about feelings are never stagnant,so who to be blame if the original relationship does not work anymore and the guy have found his new love and the outsider is just trreasuring her lovely moments with the man of her life for now.Though he is not hers technically but what can she do,go and tell the girl he is engaged to go away or to tell the girl she is in love with the guy who the girl is engaged to? Neither can she do because she is just another girl like this outsider who have spent her entire few years loving this man not knowing their relationship bound to fail.Not knowing the sparks are worning out and not going to ignite anymore.Not knowing the guy will be falling for someone better than her in blink of time.All she knows is she shared a huge amount of her time with this guy and they have histories together but can that hold them back together?Perhaps.

Looking into the outsider now,what can she hold on to?Having an engaged guy loving you isn't so convincing as much as he cares and showers you with tonnes of loves and gifts,the position is still very threatening. Simply because the girl he is engaged to can anytime come up and ask you to leave.All the outsider could do is walk away with no history neither can she even be sure if she was really loved by this guy or was she just a temporary getaway for this guy who was facing constant pressure from his original relationship?Secondly,will the outsider be able to move on fast or would be stuck among the gossips and social pressure from people around her for dating an engaged guy?

Tell me now,will anyone on their right mind will stay in this guy's life and fight for him from his orginal relationship or should the outsider walk away and have more faith in someone else?

Irony of life;most happiest moment in life always comes with a price.
There is only one choice in life,make one now.